The Mayonnaise Jar
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of
him. He picked up a very large and empty
mayonnaise jar and start to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar
was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the
jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar
was full. They agreed it was.
The professor
next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the
sand filled up everything else. He asked
once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor
then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured
the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between
the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor,
as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents
your life.
The golf balls are the important things - God, family, health,
friends, and favorite passions- things that if everything else was lost and
only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else -- The small stuff‑'If you
put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the
pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never
have room for the things that are important.
So... Pay attention to the things
that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get
medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner.
There will
always be time to clean the house and fix the dripping tap.
'Take care of the golf balls first -- The
things that really matter. The rest is just sand.'
One of the
students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor
smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may
seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day
is not enough; remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
Homemade Mayo
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and start to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
The golf balls are the important things - God, family, health, friends, and favorite passions- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car. The sand is everything else -- The small stuff‑'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important.
So... Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner.
'Take care of the golf balls first -- The things that really matter. The rest is just sand.'
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day is not enough; remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
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Confectionately Yours,
Sue