I was in line with a week’s groceries in my cart. There was someone in front of me checking out
their purchases. The elderly gentleman
behind me had only 2 items. I told him
to go ahead of me since I figured I couldn’t even empty my cart before his
transaction would be finished.
As we waited for his turn, he announced his intent to make a
big pot of pinto beans in the pressure cooker.
He mentioned his ingredients with his eyes sparkling, anticipating how
good that bowl of beans would be.
I asked him if real cornbread was on the menu, and he
grinned, confirming that it had to be baked in a black iron skillet. I heartily agreed. We discussed how we both
made our cornbread and shared a tip or two with each other on freezing those
beans if there were lots of leftovers.
He confided he was widowed, and that his wife had died from a
stroke just shortly before their 50th wedding anniversary. He didn’t realize just how much I understood
that loneliness will propel one to engage a total stranger in conversation.
It could not have been more than a 2 minute interaction at
best, but I felt as if I made a small difference in that gentleman’s life that
day. Listening, empathizing, and sharing our mutual enjoyment of good old country
cooking.
The Lord reminded me that small joys, such as those beans
and cornbread, are to be savored and appreciated, even in the midst of loss. That opportunity to engage with others, share
our interests, our sorrows, our HOPE, can happen anywhere...even in the checkout
lane of the grocery store.
Speaking of hope, this gentleman’s last comment to me was a reference to the Lord, and
the promise of seeing his beloved wife again.
It made me happy to hear that.
I’ve shared my bean recipe with you on a previous
segment. Here is the cornbread that MUST accompany
them. :-)
Southern Cornbread
2 c. self-rising white cornmeal mix
2 eggs
Buttermilk
Vegetable oil-2-3 Tbsp.
Place eggs and cornmeal in a bowl. Add enough buttermilk to make a loose batter. Heat oil in a 10” iron skillet until
hot, making sure it coats the bottom. Remove from heat. Brush the sides of the skillet with oil to prevent sticking. Add batter.
Bake at 400 degrees for about 25-35 minutes until browned and crusty. Run a knife around edge of skillet and loosen from pan. Remove bread to a plate and serve
with lots of butter.
Note: Baking in a black iron skillet is essential to get the crisp crust associated with good
cornbread.
Cold cornbread can be reheated in the same skillet for 10-15 mins in the oven. The crust will crisp up.
I also make ahead & freeze cornbread for Chicken & Dressing during the busy holiday season. I will share this recipe in the future.
Confectionately Yours,
Sue
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